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thesunlover

#1  [转载] 中国对外出口雄冠全球的是“女人”

不是钢铁也不是粮食 中国对外出口雄冠全球的竟是“女人”

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  上海女人,“输出”是“输入”的10倍。韩国男人国外娶妻——中国新娘占72%。2006年与韩国男性结婚的外国女性共有万人,其中中国新娘达万人。而在2006年,韩国女性嫁到中国的只有2590人。就是说,在中国和韩国的跨国婚姻中,中国输出是输入的4倍,每年为韩国多输送近万个妇女,为中国增加万个光棍。人们幽默地说:当年,中国派出“志愿军”支援朝鲜打仗,现在,中国又派出“娘子军”支援韩国婚姻。那么。中国本土人呢?谁支援?

  中国的男女比例严重失调,但是在这个最缺女人的国度,却成了全球“出口”女人最多的国家,由此很多国家推出这样的一个结论,在婚姻这方面,可以说中国比其他国家要进步许多。难道这是真正的一种进步吗?恐怕谁都不相信。

  很多在外国留学的女性同学,说句实在话,能顺利的完成学业回家的还是不少,对于那些外国男士来说,追求一个东方美女并不是那么容易。记得有一位回国的留学生这样说,其实到了国外,随着时间的流失才发现,外国的男士根本就不像别人说的那么好,甚至很多的习惯并不适合中国女性,包括文化、饮食、交流方式等等。

  在国外留学时,追求中国留学生的非常之多,在他们的眼里,大都是抱以玩的态度,一般聪明的女孩子根本就不会接受本地人的追求。当然,也不排除一些为了留在国外,为了一种“面子、地位”而接受,甚至主动投怀送抱的学生。但是大多数的后果是,毕业之后各奔东西,留下那些自称“看破红尘”的女人背着行李回国,回来之后还会说一句,还是中国男人好。这可不是我说,是我亲耳听到的。

  其实,很多的女孩子能交老外做男友的,大都是为了一种虚荣心,也可以说是真正的崇洋媚外,认为外国人怎么都比中国人好,外国的月亮就比中国的圆,突然想骂一句,“脑子被驴踢了”。当然,我并不是反对就不能交外国男朋友,而是感情这东西,任何人都一样,幸福、美满的家庭,并不是外国人的特权。只要人花心了,感情不专一了,你嫁个神仙就那样。

  为什么我要说外国人到中国来“抢人”,当然有些夸张,但是这句话我是在一位朋友身上得知的,是几个外国人一次在地铁上的聊天,被身边一个懂英语的人听到的,谈话的大概内容是,你玩了几个中国妞,其中一个伸出五个手指头,结果大家都笑了,而旁边的一位说太少了,他换了不下十个。究竟为什么呢?其中一个说到,中国的女人很好追,投怀送抱的非常多,只要你看上的,没又追不到的,撬杠也能撬过来,并称中国的女人“太愚蠢”,这就是外国留学生眼里的“女学生”。当然,这并不代表所有的外国人,但这足以说明了在这些人眼里看待的女学生。

  再来看看崇洋媚外到什么程度了,几个女学生买东西,一口的英语,别人还以为是外国人,搞的店主摸不到东来摸不到西,结果出了门之后大笑,并说着一口流利的汉语,原来是在戏耍店主。

  话说回来,结婚并幸福的家庭也不少,在国内,其实很多的外国人长期生活在中国的土地上,不管是从文化还是饮食还是生活,都适应了。剩下的就是能不能在这个国度过上正常的家庭生活。当然,融入了这个国度,在爱情上,没有什么界限的。也可以认为,这些老外,只是皮肤和长相和中国人不一样,其他没有什么区别。

  再话说回来,感情这东西,不是崇洋媚外就能诠释的,也不是嫁给老外就能快乐幸福的,更不是你用来和别人比高低的。这些,根本就不是你炫耀的资本,而是让国人蔑视你的理由。

  中国的男女比例严重失调,更多的,也没见几个留学或者出国的能带个洋媳妇回家的,而是看着那些来中国的老外带着中国女人走的,更惨的是,来中国的,都能如愿以偿的带着中国妞逛大街的。



  最近,一篇被网络热门转载的文章《中国成了全球“出口”女人最多的国家》的文章,引发了又一轮有关“移民”的热议。

  中国男女比例严重失调 却是全球“出口”女人最多国家

  文章中指出,上海女人,“输出”是“输入”的10倍。韩国男人国外娶妻——中国新娘占72%。2006年与韩国男性结婚的外国女性共有万人,其中中国新娘就近万人。而在2006年,韩国女性嫁到中国的只有2590人。也就是,就中国和韩国的跨国婚姻中,中国输出是输入的4倍,每年为韩国多输送近万个妇女,为中国增加万个光棍。人们幽默地说:当年,中国派出“志愿军”支援朝鲜打仗,现在,中国又派出“娘子军”支援韩国婚姻。

  文章评论称,中国的男女比例严重失调,但是在这个最缺女人的国度,却成了全球“出口”女人最多的国家!

  此文章引发了网民的关注,网友“stareater”发帖说:“其实男人女人都爱往外国跑。”网友“官父”则评论中国社会的诸多问题,造成国人宁可外移: “在外国起码有一栋产权完全归自己的房子,在中国累死累活赚一点钱买套房子,还只能住几十年,人还没死,房子就不是自己的了,还要交那没完没了的物业费。”

  官员子孙多美国国籍?

  对于“出口”(移民)问题,过去即不断被讨论。在2月8日,网友在新浪微博中发布了一条消息,内容是:“美国政府统计,中国部级以上的官员(包含已退位)的儿子辈74.5%拥有美国绿卡或公民身份,孙辈有美国公民身份达到91%或以上。也就是说,他们在身份上早已经是美国人了。”此消息在短短不到一分钟的时间里便遭到删除。虽然在百度贴吧等大型贴吧论坛也纷纷将网友转载的消息删除,但由于网友的快速转发,仍然引起众多的反应和探讨。

  美国旧金山有部分从事投资移民相关业务的人士皆表示,现今越来越多的中共高官家属移民美国,有的在美国就读,他们在国内的亲属可能将大笔资金以资助留学之名汇往国外。

  也就是,不仅是“女人”想移民,高层移民率则更让人惊奇。

  平民移民为摆脱压迫 官员移民为准备后路

  对于高官移民,香港开放杂志总编辑金钟表示:“国外的身份本身就一种特权的象征,表示他优越的象征,‘你看,我可以弄到,你就不一定弄得到’,第二当然是他们留的一个后路,就是万一在中国大陆发生了什么变化,或者贪污这类的问题,他就有了一个保票,就可以跑到美国来。所以我想,这个美国绿卡是他们特权的证明书。”

  谈到移民问题,大部分网友们声称,“愿意移民,只是没有经济条件”。



因为我和黑夜结下了不解之缘 所以我爱太阳
2011-3-23 21:29
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酝藉

#2  

据说,在国外读书的中国孩子,如果没有父母一起陪读,只有50%的学生是在读书,另50%的学生是玩儿。最后毕不了业,就买文凭了事。我少见多怪地问:国外也兴卖文凭啦?朋友说:还不都是中国人做这种事。


2011-3-24 08:10
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xw

#3  

嗯,有意思,估计也是实情。记得老毛头跟尼克松谈女人,就谈到一千万这个指标,
估计还差些。另外,万维网上输出的外埠新娘此中未提。嫁韩国人,倒是新闻。

这种情况在印度支那或南美,倒不是一种新闻。古罗马及诸国关系中早有先例。


2011-3-24 08:32
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山豆凡

#4  

Personally, I am not fond of seeing Chinese ladies choose Caucasians over Asian dudes. But rationally speaking, it's their own choice, so, ladies, please go pursue whoever you feel attracted to, in spite of race, color, even gender.

From my own experience, most of Chinese girls I know, they married Chinese men and developed a stable and nourishing relationship. I have also witnessed so-called foreigner-seekers, who tend to be ill-educated and highly materialistic (there is no stereotype here and I only saw a few). However, those females did not get much because those white males are not wealthy as those women fantasized. I heard that such trend of wife-export is diminishing because they learn and they learnt. Well, many ladies marry Caucasians because of love and affection, so please do not get me wrong. What I said earlier only applies to gold-diggers or golddust-sniffers.


2011-3-24 12:55
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兰若

#5  

中国人为什么就不习惯从自己身上找原因呢?凡事不是怪这个就是怪那个,难怪现在是这个样子。。。

》》》这些,根本就不是你炫耀的资本,而是让国人蔑视你的理由。

可以因为别人的婚姻而蔑视别人,国人的素质可真够高的了。。。 这种把女人当成“东西”看的老掉牙的论调的文章也转,伊甸也开始让我失望了。。。


2011-3-24 14:30
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xyy

#6  

  跟山弟開個玩笑,是否在國內唸的“辯論系辯論專業”?無論對錯,只要辯論贏了,就能畢業?

  想起“建國”之初,當局從南方拐騙了一批“黃花閨女”,當作“東西”,輸入大西北,以安撫那裡的光頭兵團。



千江漁翁,泠然御風。手揮無絃,目送歸鴻。
2011-3-24 15:34
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杨林

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爱阳,山豆凡,
能不能请山豆凡少开几条线?把自己的诗归为一类,放在同一条线?


2011-3-24 16:00
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山豆凡

#8  



引用:
Originally posted by 杨林 at 2011-3-24 09:00 PM:
爱阳,山豆凡,
能不能请山豆凡少开几条线?把自己的诗归为一类,放在同一条线?

Are you serious? It's a literature website and you post yours and I post mine and there is no interference with each other. People should be encouraged to post more original creations.  There has not been large volume of submission so I contribute my share, and if you find it difficult to appreciate my effort and swiftness (However volatile you may feel, the number of my post does not exceed 3/day averagely), that's not my problem and please try to deal nicely with your own intolerance. The threads I created did not bury anybody else's. Nonethelss, you have your style and I prefer my own.

Thanks for your understanding, Mr. young man. Seriously, if you initiate five threads every day and I would take it as a wonderful phenomenon that hardly bothers me.

Besides, there is no specific "category" for my poetry classification. Each one of them is an individual piece. I hate bundling different poems together. What is that then? A variety store or what. Again, this is a literature web site encouraging authors to write and post their works. That's its theme and I stick to it. I strongly suggest you flip some old pages of this site and please issue the opinion based on statistics instead of transient occurance and occasional spike.

On average, I only post a couple of them every day. If you got an issue for me writing more than one poem or story daily, or the subject of my work irritates you in certain way, get over it and I can't help.

If you post/publish literature--prose, poetry, short fiction, story, and so on--very frequently, let's say, 20 per week, I would admire your creativity and would not smother your passion with my dullness and dryness. I would be delighted to see everybody be energetic and lend the forum a dazzling appearance with a lively substance. Other people don't write or do not want to write, which is their freedom and does not compromise mine.


2011-3-24 18:57
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杨林

#9  



引用:
Originally posted by 山豆凡 at 2011-3-24 03:57 PM:


Well, there is no specific "category" for my poetry classification. Each one of them is an individual piece.

On average, I only post a couple of them every day. If you got ..

I have no problem on your writing.  The problem is, your entries are too many (relatively) and sink others to the bottom.


2011-3-24 18:59
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山豆凡

#10  



引用:
Originally posted by 杨林 at 2011-3-24 11:59 PM:

I have no problem on your writing.  The problem is, your entries are too many (relatively) and sink others to the bottom.

Then you probably should ENCOURAGE EVERYBODY ELSE TO POST MORE, INSTEAD OF ASKING ME TO POST LESS(it is quite odd to make sporadic poem writings into a peom train). I so much hope I could write more, but I have only 24 hours per day and I can only write for a while out of the daylight when I am awake...If I have 10 new pieces popped up on each slot of calendar, I would consider compress them. But now, it is not an issue so please do not make it a big deal. Thanks.

Morever, how can two or three threads per day have the capability to "sink" others? How could that be possible? I did not duplicate post and I did not misplace the entry. No matter how long or short, every one of them is independent and noblely deserves an entry.

How unfair. I barely up the old threads of mine simply to "up". The screen is so large... and I posted and left, and there is usually one or two comments on my work and that's about it, I did NOT mobilize them all to take over the space. I AM active and that's something good about me. That being said, I usually limit my own post to three per day and that's how I act along. It's never been an issue before. For a medieval or dozing site, maybe, but not here, not in this web site. I prefer to post literature rather than talk about politics. So, excuse me, let me pass.


2011-3-24 19:11
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卢海涛

#11  

Two gentlemen above, you are out of track. Is this topic about women export? furthermore, should we post in Chinese on Chinese website? It is unfair for us English illiterate.


2011-3-24 20:05
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山豆凡

#12  



引用:
Originally posted by 卢海涛 at 2011-3-25 01:05 AM:
Two gentlemen above, you are out of track. Is this topic about women export? furthermore, should we post in Chinese on Chinese website? It is unfair for us English illiterate.

No offense.

Yes, we are talking about "exporting nv ren" worldwide. Gosh, it sounds so criminal...

Bro, if you have entries in French or German or Danish or Arabic, I would be interested and might even get excited (in a happy sense).

I typed way too many Chinese characters last month, which is not a good thing for me realistically. I have to balance it a little bit. Just ignore what I wrote in English and it's not that important and not many people would read it any way.


2011-3-24 20:24
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thesunlover

#13  

小兰子对不起!

我只是对这个社会现象有兴趣,文章走马观花并没有细读,不十分清楚里面有否歧视女性,当然标题有些扎眼。

引用:
Originally posted by 兰若 at 2011-3-24 14:30:
可以因为别人的婚姻而蔑视别人,国人的素..




因为我和黑夜结下了不解之缘 所以我爱太阳
2011-3-24 21:35
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thesunlover

#14  

谢建议!这个问题是这样的:我们不希望文友以大量三言两语的“豆腐块”文章或同一题材的连载占据版面,将他人的文章压下去。眼下伊甸的原创并不多,山豆的诗文也不算“豆腐块”或连载。所以,他应该有随意刊登的自由。我们无法干涉。

引用:
Originally posted by 杨林 at 2011-3-24 16:00:
爱阳,山豆凡,能不能请山豆凡少开几条线?把自己的诗归为一类,放在同一条线?




因为我和黑夜结下了不解之缘 所以我爱太阳
2011-3-24 21:43
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杨林

#15  



引用:
Originally posted by thesunlover at 2011-3-24 06:43 PM:
谢建议!这个问题是这样的:我们不希望文友以大量三言两语的“豆腐块”文章或同一题材的连载占据版面,将他人的文章压下去。眼下伊甸的原创并不多,山豆的诗文也不算“豆腐块”或连载。所以,他应该有随意刊登的自..

什么是豆腐块?在我看来,他/她的东西跟豆腐块/连载没有什么差别。


2011-3-25 11:07
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杨林

#16  



引用:
Originally posted by 山豆凡 at 2011-3-24 04:11 PM:


Then you probably should ENCOURAGE EVERYBODY ELSE TO POST MORE, INSTEAD OF ASKING ME TO POST LESS(it is quite odd to make sporadic poem writings into a peom train). I so much hope I coul..

No, I didn't ask you to post less.  Instead, I ask you to post them in less threads.


2011-3-25 11:09
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山豆凡

#17  



引用:
Originally posted by 杨林 at 2011-3-25 04:09 PM:

No, I didn't ask you to post less.  Instead, I ask you to post them in less threads.

Don't worry. I am not a silkworm and certainly can not make a cocoon.

For those threads you were referring to, tofu nor not, you don't have to consume them as they may get caught in between your teeth.


2011-3-25 13:23
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兰若

#18  



引用:
Originally posted by thesunlover at 2011-3-25 02:35 AM:
小兰子对不起!

我只是对这个社会现象有兴趣,文章走马观花并没有细读,不十分清楚里面有否歧视女性,当然标题有些扎眼。



爱太阳,没有关系,  我觉得自己并不女权,可是也不愿意看到女性被当作什么可以出口进口的东东。。。



思无邪.
2011-3-25 20:48
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